Okay, I know: we're all primed to Make This The Year We Get Organized--Really!--Once and For All. I'm right there with you, Questers! Once you decide what it is exactly you want to accomplish, whether it's organizing the garage or figuring out a weekly cleaning routine that you can stick with, there's one thing you should do before diving into your resolution: document where you're at, right now, regarding the area for which you're seeking improvement. Just as you would weigh yourself and take your measurements before going on a diet, take a few minutes to assess your current organizing situation. Here are a few ideas to get you started.
Take stock
What exactly is the problem, and whyis it a problem? A messy closet or a disorganized kitchen, for instance, isn't that big of deal in and of itself. Why does it bother you? Maybe your messy closet makes for stressful mornings, or it prevents you from expressing yourself the way you want in your attire. In the same token, a disorganized kitchen makes it less pleasant to cook, which in turn makes it more difficult to stay on a diet. Determining the scope as well as the root of the problem allows you to see more clearly the benefits of implementing your resolution.
Take a picture
If you saw the post about my Supreme Paper Mess, you know I'm a big fan of "before and after" pictures. "Before" pictures can be great motivators while moving towards your goals; once those goals are achieved, you'll be amazed at the difference between your "before" and "after" pictures .
Take a mental/emotional snapshot
Maybe the state of your disorganization can't be documented with a camera. If your goals are more along the lines of remembering birthdays, appointments, or other events, getting to work on time, meeting deadlines, or feeling more pulled together as you move through your day, it's important to document the impetus behind your goal. Close your eyes and take a moment to re-live what happened when you let yourself or somebody else down in terms of your proposed resolution. Before I decided to keep a calendar, I wrote down all the dates and appointments I'd recently missed--a friend's birthday, two appointments in a row with my hair stylist, an event that I'd been looking forward to going to. I let myself recall the disappointment or embarrassment I felt as I groped for an excuse for my forgetfulness. This wasn't a futile exercise in self-flagellation, but provided me with a clear "snapshot" of behavior I was trying to change.
Imagine living your resolution
How will making this change affect your life? Take five minutes to sit down with a nice cup of tea or coffee, a pen, and some paper and write down the benefits you'll reap when you're living your resolution. See yourself calm in the face of an audit. Cooking is a joy, your evening routine is relaxing, you can get rid of your storage unit or fit your car in the garage--whatever it is, imagine it in full detail and either make a list of what you see, write a sentence or two, or make a quick sketch of your vision. This is part of documenting where you are now in terms of your goal. Once achieved, you may very well experience your goal differently than you imagined you would, but imagining how you will feel beforehand is part of the fun of making your resolution.
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